What makes LatterHouse Décor unique? We incorporate the client's preference at every step. Survivors of domestic violence have already lost so much. First, their voice, their freedom, and often even their sense of self is stolen by their abuser. Then most have leave behind all their belongings, their house, their community (and often much more) to find a safe place. So as we help the survivors rebuild their lives, we value hearing what they want to be present in their new home.

The LatterHouse Design process starts with a client referral from a local shelter. Then our design team gets to know her*, discusses the design elements she prefers, and schedules the installation date. We make our best efforts to provide all the items on the list with new and gently used donations, and we are grateful for all the generous donations we receive. 

Because our work is customized for each client, we have to be selective with the donations we receive, BUT there are certain items we can use all the time. We call this our Basic Needs List:

  • Neutral Sheets – All Sizes
  • Mattresses – All Sizes
  • Pillows – Standard and King
  • Curtains – All lengths and colors
  • Neutral Dish Sets – Plates, bowls, coffee cups, glasses
  • Utensils – Knives, forks spoons
  • Cooking Utensils
  • Pots and Pans
  • Small Kitchen Appliances – Toaster, coffeemaker, blender, etc.
  • Bath Towels – All sizes
  • Television – Any size


Please let us know if you would like to help us stock up for the current and future installations. Drop off at our storage unit in Plano can be arranged by contacting Melissa Follis at 972-898-6124. Pick ups can be arranged by contacting Shalonda Waggoner at 469-906-9707.

Help us help survivors doing the brave work of starting over after domestic violence.

*All our clients to date have been women. We recognize that not all victims of domestic violence are women, and are open to helping other demographics in the future.




"Unconditional" love or respect is often idealized or even expected, especially in communities of faith. But what is intended to be a beautiful picture of the love of God can contribute to abuse dynamics if it is not balanced with accountability. 
Those who have committed covenant-breaking behavior (abuse, adultery, abandonment, addictions) should be held accountable for their actions, if that can be done without compromising the safety and consent of their spouse. The same is true for toxic behavior in relationships other than marriage. Abuse will not stop by wishing it away or trying harder not make someone angry. It will continue until the abuser is stopped, either by an outside force or by being separated from the one they are abusing. 
Sometimes the best way we can love someone is to let them experience the consequences of their behavior. That can be so difficult to live out! As hard as it is for those in healthy relationships to understand, victims can have a lot of love, compassion, or admiration for those who are hurting them. (That's often how the offending person even has access to abuse.) They can also be dependent physically or financially. They want to extend forgiveness to fix the relationship, and they do so over and over and over again. Things may get better, at least, for a while. But if the root cause is never addressed, the toxic behavior is going to repeat, maybe in a different way but usually getting worse. 
Communities can have a hard time understanding how to respond to such situations. They want a quick fix to make it all better again, but they don't know what really happens between two people and often respond to the person "making a scene" rather than the person who caused the damage. But it is normal human behavior to have strong emotions when we are wounded. We were designed that way to have the motivation to leave dangerous situations. How many wrongs have been committed by stifling the voice yelling, "Something is very wrong here!"?
It is tempting to believe promises to never hurt them again or to try to do better. But words are easy. The only way to see a real difference is to pay attention to actions, and not just for a day or two. A truly repentant person will demonstrate over time that they are not continuing the same toxic behaviors. They will patiently and respectfully rebuild the relationship they ruined, showing compassion and understanding to the person they hurt.
The proper response will vary for each situation, but there are some commonalities. Always begin with prayer for discernment and compassion. Any burden of relationship repair should ALWAYS ONLY be on the one who damaged it. And the wounded person should be given the grace to respond as they need to, the space to feel safe again, the time to heal, and the support to rebuild what has been taken from them.

By Maria Burke

Decorating or re-decorating does not have to be hard and it certainly does not have to be expensive. As a matter of fact, it can be extremely fun and super easy if you keep these tips in mind!

  1. Pay a visit to your neighborhood thrift store, re-sale shop, or flea market. I cannot even begin to tell you how many awesome finds I have made at Goodwill, Salvation Army and other neighborhood thrift stores. Of course, the better the area – the better the finds, but I can safely say that I have pretty much covered the spectrum. Often times, you can find hidden gems from pricier retailers like Pier 1, Z Gallerie, Crate and Barrel, and more! These finds are considerably less than their original price tags and, more times than not, are still in great condition. So next time you pass your friendly neighborhood thrift store – stop in! You could be pleasantly surprised. And as an added bonus – many times these places are often supporting a good cause. **
  2. Little changes can make a huge impact! So many times we want to hit the ground running by trying to make huge changes to our space. That, unfortunately, is what can get us into a lot of financial trouble. If you want to make a change, try starting small. For example, introduce a new color to your scheme with a few vases, some candles, accent pillows, wall art or even a throw rug. You would be surprised at the wow factor these simple additions can make to the room.
  3. Paint your way to a new room. Painting is another fairly inexpensive way to change a room without breaking the bank. You don’t even have to paint the whole room to make a statement. Accent walls are a great way to change things up without all of the prep and work that goes into painting an entire room. A pop of color on a single wall with just the right touch of wall art and accents can turn any room from “eh” to “ooh” in no time!
  4. Mix it up. A lot of times we can get so caught up in the minutia and technicality of decorating that we forget to just let go and have fun. I find myself guilty of this sometimes and have to dial the “seriousness” back a notch or two and just let my personality and individuality shine through in my space. You should do the same! So what if the end tables don’t match the coffee table? For that matter, who cares if the end tables don’t match each other? A room can come together in a perfectly imperfect way with just the right combination. Have a good time decorating YOUR space – don’t worry about what the magazines say. Create a space that you LOVE walking into everyday!
  5. Shop for clearance or less than perfect items. I can pretty much guarantee that if I do venture into one of the larger retailers or even if I am shopping online, I have absolutely no problem heading straight to the clearance section! A lot of times you can find “diamonds in the rough” marked down significantly due to a small scratch or chip – but still perfectly functional. On rare occasions, depending on the extent of the damage, a manager or sales associate may be willing to discount the price even more, just to move the items. It certainly doesn’t hurt to ask – I do!
  6. Do the unexpected! In the world of interior decorating, literally just about anything goes now. Paintings don’t have to hang on walls. Lamp shades can be up-side down. Pinks can even go with reds! Whatever your heart can imagine can pretty much be done. Keeping that in mind, and don’t be afraid to use unexpected items in totally new and different ways. I have seen bicycles hung on a wall and called art, barn doors converted into coffee tables, milk jugs and mason jars used in place of vases, rugs hung on walls in lieu of a traditional painting, and so on. The bottom line is – don’t be afraid to try something new. Who knows? It could end up being the next big trend!
  7. Break out some of that old stuff. Remember that old vase that you stashed away because you thought it was “out of date”? Well more than likely, it’s not! There is nothing new under the sun – that applies to décor as well. Today’s decorators are mixing and matching the old with the new so artfully that you can barely tell what’s been repurposed and what was purchased brand new. So before you head out in search of “new” new stuff, revisit some of the oldies but goodies that you might have tucked away somewhere and see if they might just be the statement piece that you were looking for.
  8. Get creative. I know what you’re thinking: “I don’t have a creative bone in my body!” Well guess what? With a vast array of YouTube videos, Pinterest and Facebook specialty pages, you have absolutely no excuse for not at least trying. I have also found tons of easy to do projects that look amazing and cost next to nothing to do. There are even a couple of pages dedicated to making pretty close replicas of pieces that cost hundreds of dollars in the store that you can make for less than $50 or even $20. So get out there! Explore these sites and become inspired to channel your inner artist. You might just like it!
  9. Sew what? Good question! And the answer is, “Pretty much whatever you can buy off of the shelves!” You like that $45 curtain panel? Does that accent pillow case catch you eye? Is that table runner the cutest thing you ever saw? Make it! If you are blessed to be able to adequately operate a sewing machine or hand sew for that matter, put those skills to work in your favor and make your own curtains, runners or pillow covers. Not only do you have the satisfaction of getting exactly what you want and need, you have the added pleasure of being able to say, “I DID IT MYSELF!”
  10. Décor swap. One fun idea that has become popular within the last couple of years is décor swapping. I love this because you can essentially get a whole new look for your space by simply swapping out your themed decor with someone else who also wants to try out a new look. How fun is that? No out of pocket expenses, and you get to help someone else in the process – a win-win! You could also have a décor swapping party by inviting your friends who are looking for a change of spatial scenery to bring their old décor, so you all can select what you want from what everyone else brought. You could end up with a whole slew of items to reinvent your space with.

I hope that some of these ideas have been helpful and that you will be inspired to decorate on a dime!

**LatterHouse Décor partners with Hope’s Door with resale shops in Plano and Garland, Texas. The mission of Hope’s Door New Beginning Center is to offer intervention and prevention services to individuals and families affected by intimate partner and family violence and to provide education programs that enhance the community’s capacity to respond. You can find information about Hope’s Door at

It's that time again! LatterHouse Décor has a wish list from a new client. Please consider what you can help with from the list below, because the sooner we can gather the items, the sooner we can install them. Thank you for being a blessing!

July Wish List

We're getting ready for our first installations of 2018! Two survivors have been referred to us, and we're preparing to make their safe places feeling like home as soon as possible. We’ve put together a wish list for each of them and have already checked off several items. If you are able to help with some of remaining items listed below, you can contact us through our website at

Wish List 1

  • Dresser, nightstands
  • Bedding (Burgundy, forest green, beige)
  • Lamps
  • African Art
  • TV, DVR (DVDs, kids’ movies)
  • Pots and pans
  • Kitchen towels
  • Kitchen mat

 Wish List 2

  • Full-sized bed
  • Bedding (dark colors with bold, bright accents)
  • Lamps
  • Area rug
  • TV, DVR (DVDs, kids’ movies)
  • Crock pot
  • Coffee maker
  • Pots and pans
  • Kitchen towels
  • Kitchen mat
  • Over-toilet bathroom shelves
  • Bath mats

When LatterHouse Décor receives a referral, a decorator and another team member set up a meeting to get to know her a little better. Part of that is listening to the parts of her past she wants to share with us, but mostly it's to discover the future she envisions for herself and her family. We find out what she needs and what kind of environment would help her feel truly at home. We schedule an installation day as soon as possible, leaving time to procure everything we can to make that wish into reality. Our decorators are amazing at using mostly donated home goods to create a space that exceeds our clients’ imagination.

If you are interested in being a part of our mission, here are some ways you can help:

  • Donate new or gently used furniture, décor, kitchen items, and other home goods. We aren’t just filling our clients’ homes, we are designing a space that will support them in learning how to go from surviving to thriving. Having a variety on hand helps us meet their individual needs.
  • You can make a tax-deductible financial donation at
  • Raise awareness about domestic violence. Everyone should have a safe place to call home.

 Our Purple Ribbon Mission is to provide no cost Interior Design services to Women and families hurt by domestic violence, one home at a time.

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Home. We have a lot of sayings about it: home is where the heart is  or, my favorite, home is where the Wi-Fi connects automatically. It’s more than the structure you dwell in; it’s a feeling, a feeling that is supposed to be positive. It should conjure up ideas of warmth, acceptance, and happy memories.

But for some, home is a warzone.

It doesn’t matter what that house looks like or what neighborhood it’s in. Domestic violence can happen—and does happen—to people of every walk of life. And it looks different in every situation. Abuse can be physical, but it can also be spiritual, emotional, verbal, mental, sexual, or financial. The one constant is that the abuser believes they have the right to exercise control over their victim.

Being victimized doesn’t meant that you were weak; it means that someone who was supposed to love you instead decided to harm you. It is a violation of not just your body, but of your very humanity.

It doesn’t have to stay that way. There is hope and there is help.

We understand that finding safety can be difficult on many levels, and even dangerous for some. Many who have made the brave choice to start a new life, leave with just the essentials. Leaving an abuser often means that they are also leaving behind their community, their belongings—their home. Being safe is a good thing, but it’s hard to make an empty apartment feel like home.

That’s where LatterHouse Décor comes in. We are connected with local shelters who recommend our services to women who have gone through their program and are committed to their new start in life. After getting their letter of referral, members of our LatterHouse team meet with the survivors to discuss their needs and preferences. Then our decorators design a beautiful living space from donations of new, gently used, or refurbished furniture and other home goods.

Our goal is to create an environment that will support survivors of domestic violence in making their new home a place of healing and peace.

The glory of this latter house shall be greater than of the former,
says the LORD of hosts: and in this place will I give peace.

—Haggai 2:9

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